Shannon here: Historical romance author, Anne Mateer shares her proposal story and a chance to win her latest release, Playing by Heart. Comment or answer a question at the end of the post to enter the drawing. Deadline: Oct 18th, 11:59 pm central time. Here’s Anne:
It all started a few weeks before the actual event. I had just transferred to my boyfriend’s college after we’d spent the previous school year corresponding via letters and phone calls. (The old fashioned, expensive way!) The leaves turned brilliant shades of red and orange and the air turned crisp and cool. Having hoarded his summer salary, my boyfriend and I had looked occasionally at rings in jewelry stores, winking diamonds in glass cases under bright lights. But one day he took me to another place, to a dilapidated little building in that college town. A jeweler that had come highly recommended. We rode to the second floor in an old elevator complete with the metal gate to pull across before it would operate.
The elevator opened to a plain room, just one wooden counter, a gray-haired man smiling behind it. We want to look at engagement rings, we told him. I want a solitaire, I explained. He nodded, asked a few questions, and realized we knew absolutely nothing. Instead of showing us pre-made rings, he brought out several loose diamonds, differing shapes and sizes, and explained the nuances and pricing of each. He didn’t carry inventory. He created it. A few minutes later, we thanked him and left.
My then boyfriend and I didn’t mention the visit between us again. In one sense, we’d learned a ton from the experienced old jeweler. And yet it seemed a little overwhelming. Why not just pick a ring from a velvet nest under glass?
A few weeks later, the first Tuesday night in that November of 1986, we settled in to watch election returns. (My man not only followed politics then, he aspired to them.) I can’t remember how the conversation turned, but at one point he excused himself and went upstairs. A few minutes after he returned, he told me he had something for me in his shirt pocket.
A marquise-shaped diamond solitaire ring, hand-crafted by the old man.
He asked. I answered.
We called our parents, went out for Chinese food, and stunned his roommates with our news when they returned.
Not a lavish proposal story, to be sure. And one that, in my youth, I remembered with a twinge of envy for those with more ornate stories. But looking back 28 years later, I see that moment was so us. Private. Understated. Planned for, but not scheduled. And in the surroundings of our normal life.
And after all, isn’t that really the best kind of romance?
Question 1: What was your proposal like—ornate or mundane? If you aren’t yet married, what is your dream proposal like?
Question 2: Have you ever played any kind of sport?
About Anne: Anne Mateer loves bringing history to life through fiction. She is the author of four historical novels as well as a contemporary short story to be included in this fall’s Cup of Christmas Cheer II. Anne and her husband have been married 27 years. They live in Texas and are the parents of three young adults, all still looking for their own true life romance. Learn more and connect: www.annemateer.com www.facebook.com/AuthorAnneMateer www.twitter.com/AnneMateer
About the book – Playing by Heart: Lula Bowman has finally achieved her dream: a teaching position and a scholarship to continue her college education in mathematics. But then a shocking phone call from her sister, Jewel, changes everything.
With a heavy heart, Lula returns to her Oklahoma hometown to do right by her sister, but the only teaching job available in Dunn is combination music instructor/basketball coach. Lula doesn’t even consider those real subjects!
Determined to prove herself, Lula commits to covering the job for the rest of the school year. Reluctantly, she turns to the boys’ coach, Chet, to learn the newfangled game of basketball. Chet is handsome and single, but Lula has no plans to fall for a local boy. She’s returning to college and her scholarship as soon as she gets Jewel back on her feet.
However, the more time she spends around Jewel’s family, the girls’ basketball team, music classes, and Chet, the more Lula comes to realize what she’s given up in her single-minded pursuit of degree after degree. God is working on her heart, and her future is starting to look a lot different than she’d expected.
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